What is bound to meet?
Bound to Meet is a members only non-play social event for the kink community, designed to help you connect without pressure.Think group activities, chats that go deeper than small talk, and a space that feels genuinely welcoming.It’s open to all genders, sexualities, and experience levels. Whether you're new or well-versed, solo or partnered, you're welcome here.Expect consent-focused tools, a themed workshop or talk, lightly structured speed meets, and time to dance, flirt or just hang out.This isn’t a play party. It’s about real connection, curiosity, and community.
Who's behind it?
Bound to Meet is hosted by Alice Lovegood, a conscious kink practitioner and sex educator who’s been creating thoughtful spaces for connection and community for years.She cares deeply about people feeling safe, seen and able to show up as themselves. Her events are full of intention, and she has a way of making things feel both playful and grounded at the same time.If you want to know more about her work and what inspired Bound to Meet, you can read more below.
MEMBERSHIPS
Bound to Meet is a private members only event series. To keep the vibe safe, welcoming and intentional, all guests need to apply for membership before attending.Becoming a member gives you access to event invites, early booking links, and occasional members-only gatherings.We’re building a community of kind, curious people who care about consent, connection and kink in its many forms. You don’t need to be experienced. You do need to be respectful.To become a member, just fill out a short application. We’ll ask a few questions to get a sense of who you are and what brings you here. If it’s a good fit, you’ll be added to our private mailing list.
IMPORTANT INFO:Due to the number of submissions and manual process of authentication we may take a while to get back to you. If you do not hear from us within two weeks of applying, please DM us.
EVENTS
Check out our upcoming events and workshops.Coming to more cities soon 👀
Bound to meet
@ The raven 3rd july
Bound to Meet
@ The Raven, Bristol
Thursday 3rd July 2025
A connection-focused night for the kink community. Expect icebreakers, low-pressure workshops, music, quiet corners, and time to meet like-minded people in a welcoming space.• No play
• Consent-led vibe
• Wristbands, stickers + soft structure
• Open to all genders, sexualities + experience levelsThis event is open to Bound to Meet members only. If you're not a member yet, apply here.Once your membership has been approved, you will receive a private link via email to book tickets.Want to join us?
Designing Desire: Mastering Scene Creation in Kink and BDSM
Designing Desire: Mastering Scene Creation in Kink & BDSM
Tuesday 24th June 2025 · 7:30 PM (BST)
A live 90-minute online workshop on how to design electric, intentional scenes in kink and BDSM. Expect safety tools, creative ideas, communication tips, and scene-planning support — all delivered with care.• No experience needed
• Consent-led learning
• Practical tools + resources included
• Open to all identities, dynamics + stylesRecording available for 30 days. Includes slides, planning worksheets, a Spotify playlist, and further learning guides.Run by Alice Lovegood, a kink practitioner, content creator, and the UK’s most-followed sex educator. Known for her trauma-informed, pleasure-led approach to kink education.
FAQ
IS THIS A PLAY PARTY?
Nope. Bound to Meet is a non-play event. That means no sx, no public play, no performance. It’s about connection, not kink in action.
DO I NEED TO BE EXPERIENCED IN KINK TO COME?
Not at all. Whether you’re just starting to explore or have years of experience, you’re welcome. You don’t need to have all the language or labels. Just curiosity, care, and respect.
CAN I COME SOLO?
Yes! Lots of people do. We design the evening to be friendly and low-pressure, with built-in ways to meet people without it feeling awkward.
WHAT'S THE VIBE?
Think soft lighting, good conversations, lightly guided activities, music, and a bit of magic. There’s room to dance, space to chill, and plenty of chances to connect.
WHAT SHOULD I WEAR?
There’s no strict dress code. Just wear something that makes you feel confident and like you’ve made a little effort. Creative expression is encouraged but not required. But please no tracksuits or jeans.
IS IT ACCESSIBLE?
Our current venue, The Raven Bristol, has step-only access. We will include accessibility details in all event info. If you have any specific needs or questions, please get in touch. We’ll do our best to support you.
HOW DO I GET INVITED?
You’ll need to apply for membership first. It’s free, and helps us keep the space intentional and welcoming. Once you’re a member, you’ll get event details by email.
CONTACT
Got a question? Want to collaborate? Just need to check something before you apply? We’d love to hear from you.The best way to reach us currently is on Instagram.We aim to reply within a few days, but please be patient - we're a small team and this is a labour of love.
Privacy Policy Screening Form
Last updated: 5th June 2025Bound to Meet is committed to creating a safe, inclusive, and respectful environment for all attendees. This privacy notice explains how we process and protect your personal data when you submit a membership application through our screening form.This notice applies specifically to data collected via our membership form hosted on Tally.so.About Bound to Meet & The Bound Collective
Bound to Meet is a private connection event run by The Bound Collective Ltd, a UK-based company. We take privacy seriously and handle all personal data in line with the UK General Data Protection Regulation (UK GDPR) and the Data Protection Act 2018.Data Controller:
The Bound Collective Ltd
Contact: [email protected]What Data We Collect
When you apply for membership, we may collect:• Your name or alias
• Email address
• Age confirmation (18+ only)
• Relationship/kink preferences (optional)
• Prior event experience, access needs, or safety considerations
• A photo (for identity verification)
• Any other information you choose to shareWhy We Collect This Data
We process this data to:• Assess suitability for our private events
• Support safety and community wellbeing
• Manage communication related to your application and future events
• Comply with any legal obligationsLegal Basis for Processing
• Legitimate Interest – for safety screening and community protection
• Explicit Consent – for optional personal or sensitive data
• Contractual Necessity – to support your attendance
• Legal Obligation – where required by law (e.g. safeguarding concerns)Safety Screening Measures
To protect our community, we may conduct discreet safety checks such as:• Reviewing public safety alert or community accountability forums
• Consulting trusted organisers or reps within our wider network
• Cross-referencing identity details to ensure safe participationThese checks are used solely for safety and are never shared outside our organising team.How We Store and Protect Your Data
• Your application data is submitted via Tally.so and stored securely
• Only authorised organisers can access it using password-protected tools
• Data is encrypted in transit and stored in line with GDPR principles of data minimisation
• Memberships remain valid indefinitely, but we review stored application data (including ID photos) once a year
• If a member is inactive for over 12 months, or we’re unable to contact them, their data may be removed as part of routine clean-up
• You may also request deletion of your data at any time by emailing [email protected]To request earlier deletion, email [email protected]Who We Share Your Data With
We do not sell or share your data for marketing.We may use secure third-party tools to manage data, including:• Tally.so – form submission and storage
• Mailchimp or other providers – to send approved event communications
• Secure internal systems – for storage and reviewAll services used are GDPR-compliant and access is restricted to core team members only.Email Contact Policy
If your membership is approved, you may receive emails about upcoming events or relevant community updates.You can opt out at any time by:• Clicking "unsubscribe" in any email
• Or emailing [email protected] with subject line: “Opt-Out Request”Your Rights
You have the right to:• Access your personal data
• Request corrections or deletion
• Withdraw consent for future communications
• Ask us to stop processing your data at any timeTo make a request, email [email protected] with subject line: “Data Request”.
We’ll respond within 30 days.Data Breach Policy
In the unlikely event of a data breach:• We will notify affected individuals where appropriate
• Serious breaches will be reported to the ICO within 72 hoursCookies & Website Tracking
We may collect anonymous usage data if you visit our website, using tools that may place cookies.
You can manage or disable cookies in your browser settings.Your Agreement
By submitting this membership application, you confirm that you have read and agree to this Privacy Notice.✅ I have read and agree to the Privacy Notice.
Terms of Service
Last updated: 5th June 2025By using this website or submitting a membership application, you agree to the following terms:1. Membership and Events
Event access is by approved membership onlyMembership applications are reviewed manually and may require ID/photo verification for safetyIf approved, you’ll be sent private ticket links and event information via email2. Community Standards
Bound to Meet is designed as a respectful, safe, and inclusive space.
We reserve the right to deny or revoke access to anyone whose behaviour is unsafe, inappropriate, or in conflict with our values.3. Payments and Refunds
Ticket sales are handled via external platforms.
Please refer to the third-party ticket provider’s refund and cancellation policies for details.4. Intellectual Property
All content on this site — including text, branding, imagery, and materials — is the property of The Bound Collective Ltd or is used with permission.
Please do not reproduce or reuse any content without prior consent.5. Contact
If you have questions or concerns about these terms or how we operate, please contact:[email protected]
Privacy Policy
Last updated: 5th June 2025This site is operated by The Bound Collective Ltd, a UK-based company.
We respect your privacy and are committed to handling your data responsibly.What we collect
We may collect personal data when you:• Sign up to our mailing list
• Submit a membership application form (hosted via Tally.so)
• Contact us directly via emailDepending on your interaction, we may collect:• Your name or alias
• Email address
• A photo (for identity verification, via membership form)
• Any other info you choose to provideWhy we collect your data
We collect and process your data to:• Manage event communication
• Review and verify membership applications
• Ensure community safety
• Share updates you've requestedWe only collect what we need, and we never sell or share your data for marketing.Where your data is stored
We use secure, GDPR-compliant third-party services to collect and manage your data. These include:• Tally.so – to process membership applications
• Mailchimp – for email updates and newsletters
• Secure internal systems – to manage event planning and communicationAccess is restricted to trusted members of our team. All tools used encrypt data in transit and meet data protection standards.How long we keep your data
• Membership form data is stored securely and reviewed annually.
• If a member is inactive for over 12 months, or we are unable to contact them, their data may be deleted as part of our regular data minimisation process.
• Email sign-up data is kept until you unsubscribe.
• You can request deletion of your data at any time by contacting [email protected]Your rights
You have the right to:• Access your personal data
• Request correction or deletion
• Withdraw your consent
• Raise a concern with the ICOTo make a request, email [email protected] with the subject line: Data Request.
ABOUT
Bound to Meet was created by Alice Lovegood, a qualified sex educator, conscious kink practitioner and long-time community builder.Alice is known for her down-to-earth, inclusive approach to kink and intimacy. With lived experience of bipolar, ADHD and autism, she brings a deep understanding of what it means to build spaces that feel safe, playful and full of possibility. Her work centres around connection, consent, and creating room for people to explore their desires without shame.She teaches, facilitates and mentors people in the kink world, and has supported thousands of people online and in person. You might know her from her sex-positive Instagram presence, her creative workshops, or her coaching work with neurodivergent and queer clients.Bound to Meet is the kind of space she wished existed when she started out. No pressure to play. No need to perform. Just real-life connection with people who get it.